God is so good at present tense grace! He loves us enough to accept us even though we’re imperfect. And he also loves us enough to present opportunities for growth. It’s the perfect balance between acceptance and correction. SO challenging to imitate! Especially when we can only see someone’s heart through the blurry lens of their actions.

I guess, at the end of the day, God’s goal isn’t to tear us down but to help us grow to look like Christ. When I’m approaching people with that kind of attitude, I’m on the right track. Easier said than done!

Also, sorry for being a bad friend who didn’t visit when I was out there! I’m coming back to AZ in May for a graduation… Let’s visit then, no matter what!

In real life, with people you know, present tense grace is hard. It seems like seventy times seven can open you up to being hurt over and over, and really, who wants that? I can extend grace to someone who is struggling, but where do you draw the line between “I’m struggling with something” and “I’m choosing to live in sin”? And is it really your job to make that call about someone else? And even if you do make that call, how does that impact the way you treat that person? Or should it even?

It’s ever so much easier for me to “love the sinner and hate the sin” than it is for me to do the same for a saint who (IMHO) should really know better. Maybe this is exactly why present tense grace is so difficult to come by: no one knows what it’s supposed to look like!

Can you tell I’m dealing with someone that’s making habitually sinful choices and I’m trying to figure out where to draw the line between grace and consequences, love and tough love, and accepting the person while rejecting their sinful lifestyle? Thanks for the post, it was timely and thought provoking for me.